Networking Guide
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Networking Guide

Most legal jobs come through people. This guide gives you a simple, repeatable way to network, starting with your alumni and informational interviews, then tailored for biglaw, smaller firms, public interest, in-house, and government and court work.

Most legal jobs are filled through people, not portals. That sounds intimidating, but networking is really just a set of small, repeatable habits: finding the right person, sending a short and honest note, having a good conversation, and staying in touch. You do not need to be naturally outgoing. You need a system. This section is that system, and the sector tabs build on it for biglaw, smaller firms, public interest, in-house, and government work.

Start here

Your alumni network is the easiest door to open

Alumni from your school are the warmest contacts you have, because you already share something real. They were once in your seat, and most are genuinely glad to help a student from their school. The hard part is just knowing how to find them and how to reach out without it feeling awkward.

  • Sign up for your school's alumni platform. Most schools run a directory or mentoring tool, often through the career office, where you can search graduates by city, practice area, and employer. Ask your career office for the name of yours and how to get access.
  • Build out LinkedIn and use your school's alumni page there. You can filter graduates by where they work and what they do, then connect with a short, personalized note.
  • Use Handshake or your school's job platform, which often lists alumni who have opted in to talk with students.
  • Do not overlook your own connections. Undergraduate alumni, former coworkers, family friends, and people you met before law school all count, and a warm introduction beats a cold one every time.
  • When you find someone promising, research them first. Read their firm or agency bio, their practice area, and anything they have written, so your note can be specific rather than generic.

The first message

How to write a cold outreach email

The goal of the first email is small on purpose. You are not asking for a job. You are asking for fifteen or twenty minutes to learn from someone's experience. That is a low, easy yes, and it is the start of a real relationship. Keep it short, make it about them, and be clear about what you are asking for.

  • Introduce yourself in one line. Say that you are a 1L or 2L at your school, and say where you found them, whether that was the alumni network, LinkedIn, or a bar directory.
  • Give a sentence or two of background. Just enough to show why you are reaching out to this person in particular, not your whole resume.
  • State your purpose plainly. Ask to hear about their path and their practice area. Make it clear you are not asking about an opening, only hoping to learn.
  • Keep it short and make it easy to say yes. Offer to work around their schedule, by phone or video, and keep the whole message to a few short paragraphs.
  • Decide on your resume. Some students attach it to the first email so the person has context, and others wait until the contact agrees to talk. Either is fine, so do what feels natural.
Subject

[School] [1L or 2L] interested in your [practice area] work

Message

Dear [Ms. or Mr. Last name],

I am a [1L or 2L] at [your school], and I came across your profile through [our alumni network, LinkedIn, or a bar directory]. [One honest sentence of relevant background.] I would be grateful for fifteen or twenty minutes to hear about your path to [practice area] and what the work is really like. I am not writing about a job opening, only hoping to learn from your experience.

I am glad to work around your schedule, by phone or video, whenever is convenient. Thank you for considering it.

Respectfully,
[Your name]

Change it for every person. A note that reads like it was copied to fifty people is easy to spot, and easy to ignore.

The conversation

How to run an informational interview

An informational interview, sometimes called a coffee chat, is just a short conversation about someone's career. It is not a job interview, and you should make that clear so the other person can relax and be candid. Your job is to be prepared, be curious, and be respectful of their time. Come with a short introduction of yourself and a handful of real questions.

Questions worth asking

  • How did you end up in this practice area, and would you choose it again?
  • What does a typical week actually look like for you?
  • What surprised you most about the work once you started?
  • If you were in my shoes now, what would you focus on in school?
  • What do you wish you had known as a student about getting into this field?
  • Is there anyone else you think I should talk to?

The one habit that compounds

Never end a good conversation without asking for one more name. This is sometimes called upward networking, and it is how one chat becomes five. If someone offers to introduce you to a colleague, that introduction is worth more than any cold email you could send, so always ask, and always thank them for it.

In the room

Signing up for and surviving networking events

Events feel scary, but here is the secret: almost everyone there came to meet people they do not know, and plenty of them are standing alone hoping someone will start a conversation. You do not have to work the whole room. A few good conversations and a follow-up afterward is a successful night.

Where to find events

  • Your law school's event calendar and your career office, which run firm receptions, coffee and snack breaks, panels, and employer fairs for firms, government, and public interest, often clustered in the fall and again in late winter.
  • Your local and state bar association calendars, plus practice-area sections that welcome students.
  • Student organizations, especially affinity groups, which host their own firm receptions and panels ahead of recruiting.

Join the ABA for free

Law students can join the American Bar Association at no cost, which gives you access to several member groups, practice-area panels, and networking with practicing attorneys and judges. National and local affinity bar associations and practice-area sections are some of the best places to meet attorneys who want to help students like you.

Do

  • Register early, and read any list of attending employers the organizer sends.
  • Prepare a short, honest introduction of who you are and what you are exploring.
  • Aim for a few real conversations, not a lap of the whole room.
  • Ask for a card or a way to connect, and write a note about what you discussed.
  • Follow up within a day or two while they still remember you.

Avoid

  • Standing in the corner on your phone. Most people there are happy to be approached.
  • Leading with "are you hiring." Lead with curiosity about their work.
  • Monopolizing one attorney for the whole event.
  • Collecting cards you never follow up on, which is the most common waste.
  • Drinking too much at a firm reception. It is still a professional setting.

After

Follow up and keep track

The follow-up is where most networking is won or lost. A thoughtful thank-you and a simple system to remember people will put you ahead of almost everyone, because almost no one does it well.

  • Send a thank-you within a day or two. Reference something specific from the conversation, and act on any advice they gave, which gives you a reason to write again later.
  • Keep a contact log. A simple spreadsheet with the person's name, where you met, what you talked about, and when to follow up next is all you need. The cover letter and resume guides cover the materials you will often attach.
  • Stay in touch before you need anything. Send a short note when you start a relevant class, finish a clinic, or read something they would find interesting. Relationships you only contact when job hunting are not really relationships.
  • Mind your professional etiquette in every email and event. The etiquette guide covers the tone, the follow-up, and the small things that leave a good impression.

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